Me: first off, i honestly don't believe in love. i think it's just some concept that people came up with to give them a reason to fuck each other over more in a behind closed doors manner
Friend): lol...
Me): but then again, that's just me being bitter over the experiences of basically everyone that i know and am related to
Friend): obviously i believe in love...the entire effing religon is based around it HOWEVER
Friend: ur right in that it is man made.....
Friend: i think you can choose who you wanna love....
Friend: no so much conciously....but
Me): do you know what love honestly is?
Friend: deep down inside...we allow ourselves the oppurtunity to love someone
Me): in my opinion anyway?
Friend): an excuse?
Me): partly, yes, but there's more to it than that
Me): in my opinion, love is the addiction to chemicals that produce feelings that a person has while they're involved with someone who inspires said chemicals, which make you feel good. after a certain amount of time of experiencing these feelings, your mind connects the chemicals with the person. however, we are very emotional creatures, and are incapable of making our perceptions without having some sort of bias to them, and so, when we're confronted with these feelings for a long period of time, we become bitter toward said feelings
Me): thus creating two people who are miserable with each other, and spend the rest of their lives trying to drive one another crazy all in the name of a man-made feeling towards mankind, also reffered to as "love". this is why women stay with abusing husbands, and why everyone puts up with all of the shit that they do when it concerns people they "love"
Friend): see....i dont call that love though
Friend: i call that obligation
Me: love IS an obligation
Friend): you would think
Friend: honestly...i cant prove anything without enforcing my religon on you though
Friend): technically i cant prove my religon...or so they say
Me: I back up my "love is obligation" theory by saying this: from the moment we are born, everyone expects us to fall in love. they expect us to grow up, find someone with whom we have strong feelings toward, fall in love with them, marry them, and have children or whatever. it's set into our heads from birth that if we don't fall in love, there's something wrong with us. so we find someone... ANYONE who can inspire at least some semblance of love inside you just to make the world happy. therefore, love is an obligation.
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God Damn Yeah Its not bitter it's the truth. At this point in life I'm not sure if there is such a thing as love 'cause a lot of the shit that I went through this past semester was because someone claimed that they loved me and look at how all my shit went down. The only love thats out there is the love of family and friends. Thats it.
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